Not long ago, I was drowning in to-do lists, unfinished tasks, and the never-ending chaos of balancing home life and a growing business. One morning, I found myself searching for my planner under a pile of papers while my kids were asking for breakfast, emails were piling up, and my phone buzzed with reminders. I felt exhausted before the day had even started.
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That was the moment I realized something had to change. I needed a system—one that allowed me to manage my home and business without feeling constantly behind. Once I started implementing structured routines and decluttering both my physical and mental space, everything changed. My productivity skyrocketed, my stress melted away, and I finally felt like I had control over my life again. If you’ve ever felt this way, I want you to know you’re not alone—and I’m here to help.
If you’re ready to escape overwhelm and start thriving, let’s dive into these 12 simple but powerful steps!
“Simplifying your routines is the number one way to free up mental energy for what actually matters.”
#1 Simplify Your Routines for a More Productive Day
The first step to escaping overwhelm is simplifying your daily routines. Instead of over-complicating your schedule, create repeatable rhythms for your mornings, work blocks, and evenings. Use Systemize Your Life to build structured routines that allow you to be efficient without stress.
Quick Tip
Use a paper planner or a digital system to map out consistent morning, afternoon, and evening routines. Having an anchor for your day keeps decision fatigue at bay. Check out my free time-blocking workbook to help you get started.
I used to wake up every morning feeling like I was already behind. No matter how early I got up, I never seemed to get everything done. Once I created structured time blocks—one for personal time, one for deep work, and another for family time—I finally felt in control. Now, my day runs smoothly because I know exactly what to focus on and when.
#2 Pack Lunches the Night Before (For You and the Kids!)
A little preparation goes a long way. Packing lunches the night before saves time and reduces stress during busy mornings. Even if you work from home, having a meal ready prevents interruptions during your work blocks.
Action Step
Batch-prep lunches for the week using divided containers. Store leftovers directly in lunch-sized portions to eliminate extra steps. Get more meal planning tips here.
For the longest time, lunch was an afterthought. I’d get so deep into work that suddenly it was 2 p.m., and I’d be scrambling for something to eat. Now, I prepare lunches the night before for myself and my kids, and it has completely changed our midday routine. No more “hangry” moods or wasted time figuring out meals!
#3 Charge Your Phone Away from Your Bed
Keeping your phone by your bedside can lead to late-night scrolling and groggy mornings. Instead, charge it across the room or in another part of the house. his small habit shift can completely change the way you start and end your day.
Why This Works
- Prevents mindless scrolling before bed
- Helps you wake up without hitting snooze
- Creates a more intentional morning routine
I used to keep my phone next to my bed, telling myself I needed it for my alarm. But every night, I’d get sucked into social media or emails, and every morning, I’d hit snooze at least twice. Once I started charging it across the room, I woke up feeling more refreshed and ready to take on the day.
#4 Create a Simple, Repeatable Cleaning Routine
A tidy home starts with a manageable system. Break cleaning into small, frequent tasks instead of long, overwhelming checklists.
Try This
- Divide your home into zones and clean one zone per day.
- Use a minimalist cleaning tote with only the essentials.
- Assign specific laundry days to avoid pile-ups.
Before I had a cleaning system, I would let everything pile up until it felt like an impossible task. Now, I have a simple routine where I clean one small area a day, and my house never feels overwhelming anymore. Take a peek into my secret to a clean home without paying a cleaner.
#5 Stay on Top of Laundry
Laundry can pile up fast if there’s no system in place. Instead of waiting for the weekend to tackle mountains of clothes, integrate smaller loads into your daily rhythm.
Action Step:
Set a laundry schedule—maybe a load every morning or evening—and stick to it. Fold and put clothes away immediately to avoid clutter. Check out my 5 steps to set up your own laundry system.
#6 Ditch the Messy To-Do List in Your Business
If your business to-do list is a scattered mess of notes, it’s time to switch to a task management system. Whether you choose MeisterTask, ClickUp, or another tool, having a structured workflow will help you stay on track.
Need help streamlining your business systems? Check out Systemize to Scale for step-by-step guidance on organizing your business operations.
I used to write down every business task on random scraps of paper and sticky notes. When it was time to actually work, I spent more time looking for my to-do list than getting things done. Now, everything is organized in a digital system, and I feel 100x more efficient.
Read more here: Task Management Software – Your Ultimate Guide to Staying Organized
#7 Create Repeatable Processes for Your Business
If you find yourself doing the same tasks over and over, it’s time to document them. Having repeatable systems makes it easier to delegate and scale your work.
See how to build A Workflow that Works for Maximum Productivity.
Action Step:
Choose one process in your business that you repeat often (content creation, client onboarding, etc.). Write down the steps and create a checklist to streamline it.
#8 Set Up Recurring Home Tasks
Things like meal planning, grocery shopping, and bill payments happen regularly—so why not automate them? Having a system in place ensures they never slip through the cracks.
👉 Check out this post for more ways to simplify home management.
Action Step:
Schedule all recurring home tasks in your planner or calendar. Automate bill payments where possible to reduce mental load.
#9 Batch Your Work
Switching between different types of work all day is mentally exhausting. Instead, try batching—grouping similar tasks together so you can stay focused and work more efficiently.
I used to think I was great at multitasking—answering emails in between folding laundry, working on content while checking social media, and jumping between household chores and client work. But at the end of the day, I felt drained, and nothing was truly finished. The moment I started batching my tasks, everything changed. Instead of constantly switching gears, I now dedicate specific days or time blocks for focused work. Mondays are for content creation, Tuesdays for client work, and Wednesdays for deep cleaning at home. This simple shift helped me feel more in control and way more productive.
Learn more about unlocking time management by mastering batching in your home and business.
Action Step:
Identify one task you can batch (emails, content creation, meal prep, etc.). Block off a dedicated time in your schedule to focus only on that task.
#10 Prioritize Sleep
It’s easy to let sleep slide when there’s a lot on your plate, but poor rest leads to lower productivity and more stress. A solid nighttime routine makes all the difference.
There was a time when I thought sleeping less meant getting more done. I’d stay up late working, wake up exhausted, and rely on caffeine to push through the day. But I was constantly on edge, snapping at my family, and feeling like I was barely keeping my head above water. When I finally prioritized sleep—setting a bedtime, reducing screen time at night, and winding down with a simple routine—I saw a massive shift in my energy, patience, and focus. Now, I protect my sleep just like I protect my work blocks because I know everything runs smoother when I’m well-rested.
Action Step:
Set a bedtime alarm as a cue to start winding down. Keep your evening routine simple—dim the lights, avoid screens, and relax before bed.
#11 Protect Your Work Blocks
To get things done, you need dedicated time to focus. If you’re constantly interrupted, it’s time to establish clear work blocks where you can be fully present in your business.
I remember the frustration of trying to work while also keeping an eye on my kids, answering texts, and squeezing in housework. I felt like I was always working but never actually accomplishing anything. That changed when I set clear work blocks and communicated them to my family. Now, during my focused work hours, my kids know when I’m unavailable, and I have systems in place to keep distractions at a minimum. I get more done in less time, and when I step away from work, I can be fully present with my family.
Action Step:
Choose specific hours for deep work. Communicate with your family about your work schedule so they know when you’re unavailable. Here are some more tips to make the most of your work block with kids at home.
#12 Get Clear on Your Goals
Without clear goals, it’s easy to feel like you’re spinning your wheels. Writing down your intentions helps you stay motivated and focused.
I used to set vague goals like “grow my business” or “be more organized,” but I never made real progress. It wasn’t until I got super specific—setting measurable, time-bound goals—that things started to change. Instead of “grow my business,” I set a goal to launch a new program within 90 days. Instead of “be more organized,” I committed to decluttering one room per week. Writing down my goals and breaking them into action steps helped me stay on track, and seeing my progress kept me motivated.
Need help setting goals? This guide will walk you through it.
Action Step:
Write down three specific, measurable goals you want to achieve in the next 90 days. Break them into smaller action steps and track your progress.
How to Take Action and Create an Organized, Stress-Free Life
At the end of the day, we all want the same thing—to feel in control, to be present with our families, and to chase our dreams without feeling buried under the weight of it all. I’ve been where you are, and I know what it feels like to think, “There’s just too much. I don’t even know where to start.” But let me tell you, small steps add up.
Start with one thing. Just one. Maybe it’s setting up a simple routine, maybe it’s creating your first real work block, or maybe it’s finally getting clear on your goals. Whatever it is, commit to it, and see what happens when you make that shift.
Because I promise you—once you start, you’ll feel it. The relief. The clarity. The momentum. And before you know it, you’ll look back and realize you’re no longer drowning. You’re thriving.
And remember, you don’t have to do this alone. There’s an incredible community of women who are walking this same path, figuring it out together, and cheering each other on every step of the way.
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Frequently Asked Questions
How do I get my family on board with routines?
Communication is everything! Involve them in the process, explain why it’s important, and start small. Even something as simple as a predictable bedtime routine can make a huge difference. Need more support? Move from frustration to cooperation with these 8 Strategies to Win Family Support for Systems.
What if I don’t have time to implement all of these changes?
You don’t have to do everything at once! Pick one small change, implement it consistently, and build from there. Progress happens one step at a time. This guide on routine stacking is a great resource.
